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The sky was ablaze with the glow of the setting sun as I sat down by the edge of a cliff, legs swinging freely over the ledge, though far from feeling scared, I felt an odd sense of liberation. The wind rustled the trees below, the colossal expanse of water stretching out in front of me. It was breathtakingly beautiful but something more profound caught my attention. A bird, freely gliding through the sky chasing the horizon, fearlessly embracing the unknown.

Isn't life a little like that? We stand on the edge, looking out into the broad expanse of the unknown, oscillating between anticipation and fear, our dreams held ransom by inhibitions, our growth stunted by a reality that relentlessly tugs at our potential. Don’t you long for the freedom to chase your desires, to break free and just go for it?

One such bird I came across is called Jack – a friend, a mentee, a dreamer. Jack was an aspiring entrepreneur, and like the bird, he too was standing on the edge of an unknown frontier, his dreams trembling on his fingertips. The thought of launching his own startup was exhilarating yet daunting. In a world filled with stalwarts and accomplished entrepreneurs, he was just another face in the crowd.

One day, Jack confided in me, “Tim, I have this brilliant idea and I think it would really work. But I’m afraid, what if it all goes wrong? What if I fail?” I looked at him, and something that Jack Ma once quoted popped into my mind, “Never give up. Today is hard, tomorrow will be worse, but the day after tomorrow will be sunshine.” I shared this with Jack and his face brightened up.

But my dear friend, don't we all grapple with the fear of failure? It creeps upon us uninvited, and before we know it, we guarantee our failure by convincing ourselves of a defeat that hasn't occurred yet. Often, we hold ourselves back because we value our comfort zones more than our dreams. I was no different. Before found Success Insider, I was holding myself back by conforming to sacrosanct societal norms until I realized that growth begins at the end of one's comfort zone.

I shared with Jack a nugget of wisdom that's always held me steady, “The moment you want to quit is indeed the moment to keep pushing.” Oh, the transformation when Jack took the plunge was incredible. By choosing to step out and embrace the unknown, he traded his inhibitions for the exhilaration of pursuit. Today, Jack is the spirit of his flourishing startup, a living embodiment of not holding himself back.

So, are you standing on the edge, cradling your dreams, held back by the chains of your fear? Does that voice inside your head repeatedly whisper, “what if?” Ask yourself, are you going to let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game?

These poignant questions used to haunt me during my early days when I launched the LMA course. The inhibitions were crippling until I had a eureka moment. I saw that fear has two meanings – Forget Everything And Run or Face Everything And Rise. The choice was all mine. Have you made your choice yet?

Drawn from personal experience and the myriad life stories I’ve witnessed, here is what I want to tell you – Stop making decisions based on fear. Let’s break the chain that binds us to sheer inaction or mediocre existence. Dance in the rain rather than just wait for the storm to pass. It’s time to stop holding yourself back and just go for it! So, plunge into that opportunity, shoot for the stars, take that risk, and ultimately build the life you've dreamt of.

Just remember, my friend, that life is a grand journey, a rhapsody of self-discovery and growth. The stories we weave are the ones we choose to write. Would you rather watch the bird soaring freely in the sky or become the bird that embraces the skies? You have the power to author your own story. Write a story that future you would be proud of. Let's step out of our comfort zone, charge headlong into the arena of life, for it's better to try and fall, than to never fly at all.

I remember clearly, there was a point in my life where I was running on empty. I had achieved a kind of success according to society's standards, but a fundamental part of me felt hollow, barren – as if I was a well, cracked and leaking, with no water left to give. That was when I knew it was time for a change. A breakthrough.

Does that resonate with you? Feel familiar? We're not all that different, you and I. Just human beings, trying our best to navigate through this interesting muddle we call life.

I want you to think for a moment about the people you love most in your world. Those individuals you would move mountains for, dance through fire, do anything to bring a smile to their faces. Now, consider this – when was the last time you nurtured that same intense, unconditional love towards the person you see in the mirror?

It’s a hard question, I know. But crucially important because here's an indispensable fact: without a strong love within yourself, there won't be anything to extend to others. True love, real self-love, overflow – it is all interconnected, all one.

Now, you might question, “How can I cultivate this self-love, this appreciation for my own being?” Truly, there's no easy answer. It's a journey, an intricate labyrinth where each left turn and dead-end bring you closer to the heart of things.

But, here’s some wisdom I've gathered along my own path. Insight shared not from a pedestal of perfection, but as a fellow traveler down this sometimes challengingly beautiful road of life.

Start by accepting that you are not here to be perfect. You are here to be human, to make mistakes, to tumble and rise. And every stumble, every falter, shapes you into a uniquely resplendent masterpiece. There's something extraordinary about acknowledging your humanity, your flaws, and still looking at that reflection with eyes filled with warmth and acceptance.

Make a commitment to respect and protect yourself. Set boundaries and honor them. Understand that it's okay to say ‘no'. The world won’t crumble. Your worth doesn't shrink with every time you choose your peace of mind over pleasing others.

Invest time in your passions, whatever they may be. Reignite that spark inside of you, that joy that makes you feel alive, vibrant. Gardening, music, dance, art – let yourself delve into what you love, awaken the flame in your soul.

Stay patient. Understand that just as a seed requires time, nourishment, and care to bloom into a flower, your journey towards self-love requires patience and perserverance. So trust the process, enjoy the progress, no matter how slow it may seem.

Let's pause for a moment. How are you feeling? Is there a tad more understanding? Or a spark of curiosity? Good. Embrace it, lean into it, because here’s the deal: only when you cultivate love within can you send it without, abundantly. This overflowing love you nurture for yourself will inevitably ripple out into the world around you, touching lives and creating a difference. And that isn't just beautiful, it's transformative.

Just imagine for a moment, a world where everybody loved themselves deeply, truly. Seamless love pouring from each individual like rays from the sun. A kind of enduring happiness that is as solid as bedrock, as expansive as the sky. Sounds like a utopia, doesn’t it? But why shouldn't reality strive to emulate that? After all, utopias are but visions of what we can potentially be, and it all starts with you.

So, are you ready to start this journey, fellow traveler? To venture on this path of introspection and self-discovery, to create fertile ground within you where the seed of self-love can thrive and bloom? Realize that every step you take along this journey doesn't just change you, it changes your world. You, too, are a Success Insider with limitless potential waiting to be tapped. So let's embark on this transformative course, full of love, empathy and abundance.

And remember, “It’s not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It’s necessary.” – Mandy Hale.

As I weave words of inspiration, a rush of nostalgia sweeps. I look back and remember the voice that once resonated within me, “You don’t have enough”, “You are not enough”. Oh, how relentless that voice was, pushing me into a whirlwind of self-doubt, discouraging me from stepping out of my comfort zone, keeping me limited and stuck to the known boundaries. Does it sound familiar?

Perhaps, you too may have experienced that unsettling voice within, firing arrows of insecurity and fear, constantly criticising you, making you believe that no matter what you do, it is not enough to succeed. A voice persistently assuring you that you are destined for mediocrity with dreams of greatness being far beyond your reach. But today, I summon you to challenge that voice.

Picture this if you will. A young boy named Tim Han. A living proof of transformation who once allowed the disheartening voice to take up all his internal real estate. But Tim decided to challenge the status quo. He made a pact with himself that he will not only voice his dreams, but also give himself permission to achieve them. Tim's inspiring journey, his key learnings, and refreshing lessons are aspects I share with you here, hoping you'll embrace his ethos and rewrite your own story just as he did.

Many assume that success should be an upward trajectory, a constant journey of growth and achievement. The truth is, this belief is far from reality. Most successful people have faced hurdles on their path, have failed numerous times before they found their wisdom, their rhythm, their success. Success isn’t always about climbing. Often, it’s about holding on even during the most challenging times.

Take the wildly successful LMA course. A beacon of self-enlightenment, reshaping my life entirely and countless others as well, not instantly but gradually. Through small and substantial steps, this course not only taught but also reinforced the power of self-belief and taking decisive action. Do remember, genuine transformation is always incremental, requiring patience and perseverance.

Visualize your dreams, imagine your success as vividly as you can. Feel them with every fiber of your body. The magic in life begins the moment you decide to believe in the power of your dreams. As Tim Han invokes passionately, “Whatever you believe, you become.”

Your dreams are not just your dreams, they are a glimpse of the potential that lies within you. Embrace patience when it comes to self-development. The seeds of discipline you sow today will undoubtedly grow into fruits of achievement in the future. No matter how big or small the steps are, continue moving.

Success is not a destination, it’s a journey—a beautiful journey where moves are fueled by belief, and resistance becomes the ticket to transcend limits. It’s a trip where the goal isn’t the golden treasure at the end, rather the golden lessons learned along the way – the lessons that make you a Success Insider.

To change your life, it only takes one decision, the decision to believe in yourself, believe in your dreams, and step into action. It takes courage, and yes, it's challenging. It's easier to stick to what we're accustomed to, rather than venturing into unknown territories. But remember, your greatness lies outside your comfort zone.

So, tell me, dear reader, is there a discreet, unheard voice within you, whispering to step up, face your fears, and stride towards your true destiny? Ignite that spark, listen to that voice, for it is nudging you towards your greatness. The first step starts from within and the journey, my friends, is absolutely exhilarating.

And as you embark on this exciting journey of transformation, remember to be your loudest cheerleader, for belief in self is the first secret to success. Leave a ⭐ if you agree.

In a world that is conditionally laden, understanding the significance of self-love can be transformative. Often misconstrued as selfish, self-love is about acknowledging ourselves, our needs, and our worth. Akin to the flight safety instruction, “put on your oxygen mask before helping others,” self-love too demands that we care for ourselves first to enable us to care for others.

Let me share with you an anecdote that altered my perception forever. This episode involved my dear friend, who was also a participant in the LMA course, a personal development program I founded. She was juggling several roles in her life – a loving mother, a devoted wife, a dedicated professional – and in this mayhem, she barely found time or energy to cater to her needs. Her life was spiraling out of control, and she was on the brink of a burnout. It was a heart-wrenching sight.

Then, an enlightening phase transformed her existence. She discovered the LMA course and started embracing self-love. She started dedicating time to herself, answering her needs, prioritizing her happiness without feeling guilty. And this metamorphosis was not selfish. It was necessary. It was the oxygen mask that she needed to breathe better so she could help others around her more effectively. And believe me, it turned her life around.

This miraculous change sparked an important question, why do we wait until the tipping point to acknowledge our worth? The world will never cease to demand from us, and if we don't put ourselves first now, then when? Oscar Wilde opined, “To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.” And like any romance, self-love too requires effort, understanding, and time.

So, how do you cultivate self-love? Let me share some steps that have equipped me and my friend in our journey towards self-acceptance and love.

Firstly, acknowledge your needs without guilt. Whether it's solitude, a walk in the park, a spa day, or simply immersing in a good book, do it. Cherish these moments as they are not self-indulgent but self-restorative.

Secondly, emphasize positive self-talk. Veer away from the inner critic that often reprimands, discourages, and diminishes your self-worth. Instead, foster your inner cheerleader that acknowledges, motivates, and uplifts your spirit.

Next, embrace your imperfections. Remember, your flaws are testament to your journey, adding layers to your character. They make you human, relatable, genuine. Flaws are not a sign of weakness but an emblem of courage for tolerating, accepting, and loving yourself in entirety.

And importantly, establish boundaries. Learn to say ‘no,' not out of spite but out of self-love. It is okay to declutter your life of toxic influences, draining engagements, and self-deprecating habits. Your mental peace is paramount, and safeguarding it is indicative of self-love, not selfishness.

Each of these steps may seem challenging initially, like pushing the proverbial rock uphill. But remember, the view is stunning from the top, and the journey is worth every throb, every sweat, and every strain.

The beautifully flawed, Oprah Winfrey once shared, “I was once afraid of people saying, ‘Who does she think she is?' Now I have the courage to stand and say, ‘This is who I am.'” Self-love is just that, it's being courageous to appreciate and gratify yourself without the fear of judgment, guilt, or shame.

As humans, we are hardwired for empathy and love. But before we extend these emotions to others, we need to extend it to ourselves. As Tim Han, I have learned and observed that self-love isn't selfish. It's self-intensifying, self-fulfilling, and self-gratifying.

Isn't it time we valued ourselves? For remember, the world mirrors our self-value. Are you ready to embark on this gratifying journey of self-love? After all, you, my friend, are worth every ounce of love that you can muster and amplify.

There are two types of people in this world. Those who wait for life to happen, and those who make life happen. Today, let's talk about the latter – about how to take ownership of your life.

You see, I recall a time in my journey when I felt like a tiny sailboat tossed about in a stormy sea. No matter how hard I tried to steer my course, it seemed like the waves of life had other plans.

Then, an unexpected realization hit me – life didn't happen to me; I happened to life. The moment I chose to take ownership of my life was the moment everything changed. It was not an easy path, but every stumble along the way shaped me into who I am today.

Take, for instance, Bill Gates, the co-founder of Microsoft. It was merely an idea that sprouted in his mind, yet he took full responsibility for turning that idea into reality. Despite facing countless hurdles on his way, his determination never wavered. And that's because he took complete ownership of his vision, his life.

This is not about imposing self-blame or carrying the world on your shoulders. It's about embracing the power you hold within. Your life is a result of a series of decisions you've made thus far. So, if you want something different, if you crave change – make a different decision.

So, how do you exactly take ownership of your life?

Firstly, let it sink in that ownership is not about perfection. It's about honesty. It's about acknowledging your flaws, recognizing your strengths, and having the courage to improve. Remember – life isn't a race against others, it's a journey with yourself.

Next, make self-awareness your tool for transformation. Because once you truly know who you are and what you want, you can align your actions accordingly. Each decision, when made with conscious awareness, sets you on a path towards fulfilling your true potential.

Don't hesitate in seeking help. A mentor or a guide can be a source of invaluable wisdom. I've personally experienced this enrichment through interactions with my mentors and through my association with Success Insider, an amazing personal development company.

Remember, taking ownership doesn’t mean going it alone. Leverage support, embrace guidance, but always walk your own path. Let the wisdom of others enable you to charter your own course.

Additionally, practice mindfulness. It's a powerful tool that allows you to stay rooted in the present moment, reducing anxiety about the future, and regrets about the past.

Taking ownership entails stepping out of your comfort zone. Embrace discomfort as part of growth. Remember, the magic happens outside the safe cocoon of comfort.

Most importantly, realize that you are in control of your feelings. As Viktor Frankl said, “Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response.” Remember, life might shape our experiences, but we alone determine our reactions.

Finally, taking ownership is about humbly accepting that you are a work in progress, and that's okay. You are not expected to ace every single thing in life. You will fall, you will stumble, but as long as you keep moving forward, you’re doing just fine.

Can you imagine how wonderfully empowering feeling this sense of ownership can be? You get to turn the tides of your life, this vast ocean that somehow seemed to command you. It's an everyday journey toward creating the reality you envision.

Hopefully, through my experience and the LMA course (Life Mastery Achievements) that I created, I've been able to illuminate the path you too can walk, taking complete control of your life, steering from merely being a passive spectator to becoming an active participant, a game-changer, a vision-maker.

So, can you feel that flame of empowerment awakening within you, ready to take on the world? Are you ready to seize control, to take charge and make life happen for you? Remember, the power to shape your destiny lies within you. All that's left is for you to take ownership.

Your life. Your choices. Your journey. Own them all. After all, this is not just any life – this is your life. Make it count.

You're brimming with a magnetic, contagious energy. In this swirl of life, you've landed exactly where you're meant to. Leave a 🔥in your heart if this resonates with you because I'm about to share a little secret. The power to ignite that inner fire, the success we all aspire to, rests solely within you.

Think about the first time you rode a bicycle. Terrifying, wasn't it? But then, you learned to trust your equilibrium. Each wobble was a lesson. Each fall, a reminder of the grit within you. You pushed, pedaled, balanced, and eventually, you grabbed hold of the wind. You were cycling.

And here you are now, at this pivotal moment, desperate for change but terrified of the journey. Let me tell you as someone who's been there – your fear is the starting point of your bike ride towards success. When I first started Success Insider, I was terrified too. And yet, here we are, riding the thrilling wave of individual growth.

This is where we dig into self-realization. When we speak about fear, we must remember not to dwell on it but to use it as a stepping stone, a pioneer of growth. Confucius once said, ‘The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.” So, what are your small stones? What are your first, manageable steps towards your aspirations?

Sculpting ourselves to be the best versions is not just about realizing our dreams – it’s about embracing change. Just like a diamond, we need to endure pressure to sparkle. So don’t be afraid of the grueling heat and the profound pressure, as they're what shape us into something valuable.

Fear not, my friend. You don’t have to tackle this solo. Let this essence of combined effort enlighten you: I have created the LMA course, which focusses on actualizing individual strengths and navigates those seeking transformation to their ‘aha’ moment.

This is where my personal transformation story merges with yours. People often ask for Tim Han reviews – they yearn to know how I reshaped my life. And my answer lies in repetitive learning and embracing the grind. The journey wasn't easy, but it was worth every effort.

Pushing oneself out of the comfort zone is easier said than done. But once you take that first step – break the invisible barrier, the world opens to endless possibilities. Just like the butterfly, from being a confined caterpillar to spreading its vibrant wings, your transformation awaits.

Each day is a new opportunity for you to embark on this journey. Make small, incremental changes. Make room for improvement. Discover the power within you to change your life. If your life were a sophisticated machine – you’d have absolute control of the gears.

So, can you choose to cast your fear aside and start pedaling towards your dreams today? Can you take the leap of faith into the unknown with the realization that the parachute of ultimate success will open midway?

And let me remind you – it's okay to fall. Each stumble, each fall is but a stepping stone towards your ultimate success. It's okay to be terrified. But it's more important not to let this fear stifle your dreams.

These moments of uncertainty, when you're staring fear in the face and considering retreating – those are the points that define you. Keep pushing, for there is no feeling like looking back and saying, “I did it.”

So, how about it? Can you see past your comfort zone, break the barriers, push the pedal a little harder and unlock the path leading to your dreams? Oh, trust me, once you taste that first wave of success, there's no looking back!

Remember, the road to success is always under construction, but the tools to build it lie within you. I urge you to dig deep, find that inner fire, and let it lead the way. After all, each of us has a spark within us waiting to become a flame – a flame that signals success.

We've all had days where we've looked in the mirror and asked, “Is it too late for me?” We ponder if we've missed our chance. Maybe we focused so much on life's small hurdles that we lost sight of our true aspirations. But here’s the truth: It's never too late to work towards what you really want out of life. ✨

First, allow me to share a story. I remember standing on a brink of a transformation, peering at the horizon, contemplating what lies beyond. As the founder of Success Insider, I've learned that the ebb and flow of life are full of surprises. There were times when I felt it was futile to tap into my dreams, feeling as if I should resign myself to the comfort of the known rather than venturing into the uncertain expanse of my uncharted desires.

But one day, a moment of revelation struck me. I realized: there's no timeline to dreams, no expiration date to ambition!

Turning your life around might sound monumental, but it often starts with the small steps. Let's take, for starters, the way you perceive time. Traditional society has conditioned us to follow linear paths: school, job, marriage, retirement, etc. But they never told us that meaningful living might require us to detours. Ask yourself: Isn’t it worth swimming against the conspired currents for a life of fulfillment?

In the realm of success stories, a name that resounds is that of the illustrious Ray Kroc. Kroc founded the McDonald’s empire at his 50s, after a long stretch of ordinary jobs. His life story serves as a rich testament to the fact that our ambitions are not dictated by the ticking clock.

This is where self-belief makes an appearance. When you believe in yourself, you fuel your journey towards your target. It’s about having faith in your potential, recognizing your strengths, and having the courage to bask in your own greatness. The pathway to your dreams is far more ‘how’ than ‘when’.

Segueing into ‘how’, the first step is laser-sharp clarity about what you truly want. I've seen this play out beautifully in my work with LMA course participants. Amidst their stories of transformation, clarity was the beacon that guided them towards the change they sought. Envisioning your dreams catapults you into the energy of possibilities, fueling your spirit to overcome any inertia or doubts.

Next, actionable steps are essential. Break down your dreams into smaller objectives and step-by-step action plans. Celebrate each milestone as a testament to your progress. Remember that baby steps can eventually manifest monumental leaps and bounds.

Being open to learning is another transformative tool. Acquire new knowledge every day. Books, audiobooks, webinars, and courses — they all oil the wheels of your progress. And don’t forget the valuable insights gleaned from real-life conversations; there's much to be learned from community sharing.

While it is stimulating to chase what you really want, balance is equally vital. Wise allocation of your resources – time, energy, attention – ultimately determines the longevity of your pursuit. Remember to nourish dimensions of your life other than work, such as relationships, health, and personal growth. Once we highlight balance, our capacities for reaching our goals in a fulfilling manner multiplies.

Lastly, embrace patience. The seeds you plant today might take time to bloom. But remember – you’re on a journey, every step of which is worthy of joy and appreciation. Making room for the process to unfold organically leads to beautiful outcomes that align with your aspirations.

In the midst of all this, bear in mind: the pursuit is not about punishing ourselves for being ‘late,' or playing catch-up with time. It's about uncovering and realizing the version of ourselves that resonates with our true desires – however long that takes.

So, next time you find yourself doubting your timing, remember – life is a symphony composed of various chords, each with its own tempo and rhythm. It is never too late to start dancing to the tune of your deepest desires. And remember, every step you take towards your dreams is a step toward your own personal symphony, designed and played out by you.

In your moments of doubt, always remember: It's never too late to work towards what you really want out of life.✨ So go forth, trust in your journey. Believe in yourself, because you are capable of incredible things. Don’t just dream. Begin!

Often we push ourselves to achieve in the swift-paced world that we live in, to fulfil various roles, responsibilities and dreams in record time. We weave into our lives, this insidious hostility towards time. But have we ever stopped to ask ourselves – why this hurry? The universe isn't speeding towards a deadline, it’s expanding at its own majestic rhythm. So, what's causing this rush in our lives?

In the grand scheme, each galaxy, star, and planet has a specific orbit and speed. A thorough observer of this cosmic dance can attest that there's no sprinting, no dread of falling behind, only a profoundly entrancing, steady waltz across eons. The universe does not feel the urgency; it's eternally in the ‘Now'. This divine lesson is as empowering as it's transformative.

Let's consider an experience I had while trekking Mt. Kilimanjaro a few years ago. Wrapped up against the biting cold, each breath becoming increasingly laboured, I remember pushing myself to climb faster. Suddenly, my guide, a shrewd, warm-hearted local named Mzee Chacha, cautioned me, his voice firm but kind, “Pole Pole (slowly slowly), Tim. The mountain isn’t going anywhere.” His words halted not just my hasty footsteps but the frantic thoughts in my head.

That’s when it hit me – the mountain ascents of our life are not races. The beauty lies not in the speed but the journey itself, the nourishment we draw, the lessons we learn, and how much we enrich ourselves on our way.

Let's ponder over this, if the universe has infinite time to expand ceaselessly, why do we, as part of this infinite existence, shove ourselves into the confinements of accelerated timelines? Isn’t this dissonance towards the natural pace a root cause of our anxieties and burnouts?

Harvard Business Review mentions in an enlightening article that being attuned to nature's rhythm can boost productivity and overall well-being. Similarly, imagine the profound impact on us if we aligned our life's rhythm to that of the universe.

Testimonies from luminaries worldwide affirm the wisdom of this alignment. Renowned psychologist Carl Jung once stated, “Hurry is not of the Devil; it is the devil.” Another stellar example is our very own Success Insider community, an amalgamation of unique individuals who consciously choose to progress at their own pace while celebrating their milestones.

Establishing sync with the universal rhythm requires a fundamental mindset shift, a paradigm shift that I teach in the transformative LMA course. Fostering self-belief is the root of this shift. Remember, you are an integral part of this cosmic rhythm. Your chapters will unfold in divine order, and each stage of your journey will happen in its right time.

I invite you to pause for a moment and reflect – are you racing against time, or are you dancing with the universe? Are you embracing the larger cosmic rhythm, or are you thrashing against your own divine narrative?

Learning to breathe, to take one step at a time, enabling our life to unfold gracefully, takes courage and conviction. It also takes trust – trust in the universe, in your own process and journey.

Let’s challenge ourselves to live ‘pole pole', as Mzee Chacha would say. Release the urgency, embrace the journey, lean into the divine rhythm of life. Experience the joy of embracing the present moment without the need to rush into the next one.

As the founder of Success Insider, and as your friend, I urge you not to be perturbed by the pace of others. Your dance with the universe is your own. Nurture it, savour it and most importantly trust it – this journey, your pace, your rhythm is BEAUTIFUL. The universe is in no hurry, so why should you be?

Embrace this serene practice. Let's synchronize our steps to the tranquillity of the cosmos and choirs of stars. Let's marvel as we unfold, just right, not rushed — just as the universe intended.

Have you ever braced yourself, took a leap of faith, only to feel like you fell short? Don't despair. This experience, after all, is not a failure, but a stepping-stone towards something greater. You see, even when we fall short, the journey still propels us forward. It's never about landing perfectly every time; it's about refusing to stand still.

Here's a little secret: every time you fall short of a goal, you are moving closer to it. Yes, falling short can be frustrating, but it is through this process that we continue to learn and grow.

Grasping this philosophy has been a game-changer in my life. It reminds me of a situation I found myself in not too long ago. I had embarked on a massive project—a personal development education company initially known merely as Success Insider. Striving for perfection, I envisioned a clear course with no hiccups or detours. Imagine my surprise when things didn't go according to plan.

The obstacles were mountainous, the hurdles immense. No matter how meticulously I mapped out my strategy, I kept falling short of my targets. I wrestled with self-doubt and battled discouragement. But guess what? Every stumble, every missed step, took me a step closer towards my ultimate goal. Each fall taught me something about what works, what doesn't, and how I could refine my approach. It revealed my strengths, exposed my weaknesses, and most importantly, taught me resilience.

Just like me, you too, have had experiences where you fell short of your goals. Do you remember how that felt? Instead of seeing those incidents as failures, I invite you to perceive them differently: each one was a stepping stone leading you to your desired destination.

Let's consider Thomas Edison, the legendary inventor. It was reported that he attempted 1,000 times before successfully creating the light bulb. When asked about his failures, he famously responded that he didn't fail, but rather found 1,000 ways that didn't work. What an ingenious perspective! Imagine if Edison had stopped at attempt number 999. The world may have been a very different place today.

By now, you're likely thinking, “But how do I keep going?” Allow me to share a principle that has been a cornerstone in my journey: LMA – Learn, Master, Achieve. Whenever you're feeling discouraged, lean into this process. Start by Learning from the experience, understand what went wrong, and how you can better approach it next time. Next, Master the new knowledge – practice and refine until it becomes second nature. Finally, Achieve. Use the lessons and the mastered skills to attain desired results.

So, the next time you fall short, remember, you're progressing, not regressing. Your striving, despite the setbacks, is a testament to your spirit. In the grand scheme of things, the only real failure is giving up.

Reinvent your perspective, allow it to be shaped and molded by your experiences rather than marred by perceived failures. Remember, you are not stuck; you are constantly evolving, transforming, and progressing. And progress, no matter how tiny, is still progress.

It's not just about the destination, after all. It's about relishing the journey, embracing the detours, and appreciating the learning curves. Your efforts, your persistence are inching you closer to your dreams. Keep going.

Right now, take a moment to reflect on your journey so far. Your falls, your attempted leaps, your successes—they have all contributed to where you are today. Remember, there is no deadline on reaching milestones in your life. You are a work in progress. Progress is FORWARD. So, even falling can push you forward.

Falling is not a failure, it's an attempt. And as long as you're attempting, you're succeeding. Remember, you're not alone in your journey. We all stumble, we all fall and rise again. And it's by rising again, by persisting, by moving forward, we reshape our destiny. The power is in your hands. Keep going, my friend, for sometimes even falling short can still take you forward.

Isn't it funny how we often find ourselves frantically rushing from one thing to another, constantly chasing this idea of success without ever pausing to check in with who we're becoming amidst all the hustle? You know, that's a mistake I used to make in my earlier years. I assumed that with every rung I climbed on the ladder of success, I was automatically becoming the best version of myself.

But let me tell you a little secret, one I learned through many trials and tribulations. And it's this – growth isn't always about striving forward. Sometimes, it's about slowing down, reflecting, reaching inside and asking ourselves: “Am I really happy with the person I've become?”

Today, I want to talk about the powerful practice of self-checking, a critical practice that has been touched upon by the LMA course offered by my company Success Insider. Now don't worry, this isn't a course review; more than anything, I want you to benefit from some sincere, heart-to-heart advice.

Remember Thomas Edison's timeless words: “Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is to always try just one more time” There's an implicit wisdom in what he's saying, a notion that defines real success. It's not about never failing, but never stopping to acknowledge and understand these failures.

What this requires is an intimate conversation with yourself. Picture this: If self-doubt was a friend sitting across from you in a coffee shop, what advice would you give? Heartfelt, compassionate, rooted in empathy – right? That's precisely how you need to ‘converse' with your thoughts.

Now, I'm not suggesting you suddenly turn into a hermit and spend all your time in introspection. No. What you really need are tiny pockets of mindfulness sprinkled throughout your day where you intentionally pause, reflect, and recognize your feelings.

You might ask: “But why is it necessary?”
Let's consider a metaphor; you're driving your car on a cross-country road trip. Will you keep driving indefinitely, not stopping even when the fuel gauge is blinking? Probably not. You'll monitor your resources, the fuel, the tire pressure, maybe even take a break when tired.

Consider ‘self-check-in’ as that pit stop, that service station where you ensure everything is running smoothly. Without these breaks, you risk running on empty, pushing your mental health to the point of burnout.

The key to this practice is embracing vulnerability. During your check-ins, be willing to admit, “I'm not okay”, because sometimes, it's okay to not be okay. Cherish the moments of unraveled emotions, for they carry lessons that no book or course can ever teach you. They form the building blocks of genuine self-improvement, slowly guiding you towards a future that's built on the foundation of self-awareness.

Now say this with me, “Today, I commit to checking in with myself regularly”. Notice how empowering that feels? That's because you're taking charge, promising to honor your feelings – both of joy and despair, and that's a celebrated step towards creating an authentic life.

Believe me, as with all else, consistent practice will make this habit second nature. And soon, you'll notice a change – a sense of empowerment, an increased self-awareness, a knowing that despite the external chaos, you're your own beacon of tranquility.

Remember success isn't all about external achievement. Rather, it's an inward journey towards self-discovery and self-improvement. If you want the world to recognize your worth, start by recognizing it yourself. Oh, and the next time you see that reflection in the mirror, don't forget to check in!