Tim Han Success Insider: Tag a friend that who helps you feel seen, loved & understood 👇
Ever had the overwhelming feeling of being understood? Not merely heard but genuinely comprehended, without words needing to be said? I did. And I still do. Every time, it's like coming home after a long journey.
Take a moment with me. Think about that one person who resonates with your frequency so deeply that their mere presence elicits a sense of equilibrium. Isn't it magical?
This person could be your lifelong friend—or a recent acquaintance. It could be your partner, your sibling, or a mentor. In my experience, I've had the fortune of meeting such incredible souls across the journey. Yes, journey. The one that we're all on called ‘Life'.
Have you heard of my LMA course? It's Linking Master Attention, where we focus on three key aspects—personal growth, relationships and communication. It's understanding how to tap into these areas that leads to successful connections like the one we're exploring today.
Now, let's pause here; right in the center of this moment and cherish those who stand beside us, recognizing us for who we truly are. They've seen us in our vulnerable moments, laughed with us in joy, and wept with us in pain.
They see us. We exist to them. They accept us, flaws and all. They love us, in spite of and because of our imperfections. Isn't it a miraculous feeling to be so loved by another human?
Let's take this further. Did you know that such relationships, the ones where people really ‘see' us, dramatically increase our self-worth and love? Studies vindicate this palpable sense of belonging significantly benefit our mental and emotional health.
Take Success Insider for instance, my own creation. I started it with one aim—helping people live their best lives. I sought to build a connected, compassionate community of insightful souls. Why?
Because when you have such people in your life, their growth inspires your growth. They hold a mirror up to your strengths and your weaknesses, and in doing so, prompt you to become more self-aware – which is the first step to becoming the best possible version of yourself.
Being seen, loved, and understood sparks enormous personal growth. But the real question is, how can we cultivate more such relationships in our lives? Is there a magic organic potion to render this connection with everyone we meet?
Maybe and maybe not with ‘everyone'. But we can certainly increase our chances. And it all starts with believing in one's potential—a tenet I emphasize in my courses and in life.
Let’s consider this: when someone understands us, they hold space for us to be ourselves. Similarly, we need to hold space for others, providing an environment in which they feel comfortable to express themselves. And it's amazing how much you can reveal about a person just by inviting them into a space of love, acceptance, and empathetic understanding.
Be the friend to others that you would like for yourself. Be interested and curious, show kindness in their struggles, celebrate their triumphs, and more importantly, accept their flaws with compassion.
Invest your attention where it matters. Be it a 5-minute heartfelt conversation or a lifelong commitment, prioritizing quality time always pays off. After all, it's the shared moments that lead to shared memories and deeper emotional understanding.
Lastly, be yourself. Authenticity is magnetic. Genuine souls recognize and gravitate towards it. By embracing your true self, you’ll inspire others to do the same.
Remember, it's a beautiful world out there. Even more so when shared with beautiful souls who see us, love us, and understand us. So, who's that one soul for you? Give them a shout-out below—I bet they’d love to hear they’ve made such an invaluable impact on your life.
It's your turn now. Start building. Start embracing. Be Seen. Be Loved. Be Understood.
And remember, in the journey of life, while destinations might allure, it's the travel companions who make the journey worthwhile.