One sunny morning, as I was sipping my coffee, a familiar thought crossed my mind, a profound realization that had been my North Star in understanding the true meaning of love and life; cherish your dreams, not the pursuit of love. It's a principle I've shared with millions, a core element of my work at Success Insider, and an active element in my LMA course. This realization was simply – don't chase love, instead, chase the life you've always dreamed of having, and love will inevitably grace your world.

Let's reflect. Think about your dreams right now. What are those deep desires which make your heart thrum with anticipation, your soul light up like a classically designed chandelier in a grand hall? Perhaps it's an unyielding desire to travel the world? Or is it a thriving career through which you aim to leave a lasting impact? Or pursue a life filled with creativity, passion, and innovation.

In our society, we've been conditioned to believe that finding love is the key to happiness. But let me ask you this — can love truly bring fulfillment if it's nestled in a life contrary to your dreams, contrary to your authentic self? What if the pathway to both love and fulfillment could be traversed through the pursuit of your dreams?

I can almost hear the gears of your mind clicking into place because I've been there – in that place of confusion and clarity dancing around each other. It's a revelation I’ve personally experienced and considered — Tim Han contemplating love and life whilst taking a stroll in a park at dusk.

Remember this, the universe rhymes with those who dare to live their dreams, scripting beautiful verses of love into their lives. Chasing your dreams is akin to molding the deepest essence of your individuality – your true self. And it’s this self that magnetically attracts genuine and fulfilling love.

You might be wondering – How? How can chasing dreams bring love into my life?

Well, consider the story of our beloved iPhone creator, Steve Jobs. He was a man deeply immersed in his dream – his love for innovation and creation. Did he have rocky times? Absolutely! Failure and success played an intricate ballet in his journey, but his passion remained unscathed, his dream undeterred. It's this fortitude, this authenticity that attracted not just love in his life but a community of loyal followers worldwide. Jobs never lost himself in the pursuit of love; instead, he stayed steadfast on his path, and love found him.

Harness the power of self-belief. Make that first move. Change that job, take up that painting class, travel, volunteer, immerse yourself in the river of dreams and paddle hard! The universe thrives on brave hearts. Every stroke you make, every challenging wave you tackle is carving a pathway for love, one that is drawn by the compass of authenticity, your dreams.

Pause and remember, the world needs you, just as you are, the original, unedited version of you. So let the world see you, let it know your dreams, let it fumble over your brave heart, and witness how love enters your life like an old friend, warm and understanding, inevitable!

So, here's my advice to you. Dream, but don't stop there. Actualize those dreams. Build your life brick by brick, and before you know it, love will be an integral part of the foundation. Separate the wheat from the chaff, your deepest dreams from societal conditioning, love from desperation. You are not alone in this journey; I'm with you, and so are countless others who have been where you are. We believe in you.

So, tie your laces, map your route, and start the journey of chasing your dreams. You might surprise yourself how along the way, without you having realized, love has been your constant companion, your cheerleader, your best friend. Because, my dear reader, when you chase your dreams, love is not just an outcome; it's an inseparable part of the journey.

Remember, you've got to chase the life you've always dreamed of, and love? Well, it will be the most beautiful, inevitable result. ❤️