In life, we encounter a myriad of instances, moments that shape us, incidents that prompt us to question our existence, and challenges that extract our true essence. At the core of these experiences often lies one common denominator – people. We are, to a large extent, products of our interactions with others. The sting of hurt caused by others stays with us, sometimes turning us bitter. Yet, we can choose a different path. We can choose to be better.

We all possess a tale of being hurt by others, don't we? I vividly remember one from my own life. Take a trip with me down the memory lane, to my early days starting Success Insider. The negativity spewed by critics was eye-opening, to say the least. Each critique, every pointed remark, felt akin to a sharpened arrow aimed at my dreams. It was easy, almost instinctive, to choose bitterness. But I chose differently. I chose to be better.

Why? Because I believe in the power of one's mindset and its transformative influence on our lives. I knew that by dwelling on the anger and letting the critics turn me bitter, I'd only be stunting my growth. I realized it was critical for me to evolve by embracing positivity and love. And you know what? It's more than just about me. It's about you too. Have you ever allowed the bitterness trickling from the wounds inflicted by others to change your essence?

Remarkably, choosing to be better despite the bitterness that comes your way is more common than you'd think. If you want to be inspired, look no further than Oprah Winfrey. Despite suffering through unimaginable hardship and trauma in her early life, she chose not to let her past define her. Instead, she transformed her wounds into wisdom. Today, she's a beacon of inspiration and a testament that one's past doesn't define one's future. It's how we choose to traverse through life that does.

Surely, easier said than done, right? It's challenging, absolutely. But let's remember, when we choose better over bitter, we're not negating the hurt. We're simply not allowing it to steer our life's wheel. So, how do we live this? Where do we begin?

Start by acknowledging the hurt. Don't sidestep it, run from it or act as if it doesn't exist. Acceptance is the first step to healing. Instead of carrying it as baggage, wear it as a badge of your resilience. Then, learn to forgive and let go. It doesn't matter if the person who hurt you never apologized. Forgiveness liberates you from the shackles of the past and propels you into a future of boundless possibilities.

Next, channel this energy towards personal growth. Sign up for a course that will help you unlock your maximum potential. I recall the transformation in my life when I joined the LMA course. It redirected my focus to what's substantial and made me see how one can use their wounds as stepping stones to a better self.

Imagine this. If the hurt had not happened, you wouldn't be prompted to delve deeper, to discover your true strength. Commit to constant learning and self-improvement, and you will find that despite the hurt, you're becoming a more substantial, more resilient being.

Lastly, surround yourself with positivity. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and push you towards becoming your best self. This circle could include mentors, friends, or even inspire you to be a mentor yourself. Remember, your vibe attracts your tribe. Instead of clinging to the bitter past, let's build a better future.

Every moment, every encounter, and every distressing experience is an opportunity, a lesson cloaked in disguise. Life doesn't happen to us; it happens for us. So next time you feel the sting of hurt, pause. Reconsider. Choose bitter? No, choose better! Harness this transformative power of choice that lies within you. Remember, you're not your experiences; you're what you choose to become amidst those experiences.

What are you choosing today? An invitation here, my friends, to bring about a massive shift in your life. A call to choose to be better, not bitter. Let's embark on this transformative voyage together. For, as we know, an evolved self promises an evolved world. Aren't we all in it together?