Are people not taking you seriously?
Maybe they're bullying you or putting you down?
If it's any of these things, it's all a result of this one simple fact, which I'll reveal to you today.
You'll discover the simple and single hard truth that is preventing people from taking you seriously.
And, believe me, it may hurt to admit it.
It may even be difficult for you to realize it.
But that's why so many people struggle to achieve respect, even around their own friends and family.
Take it from me, I went through a low period of my life where people would always over-talk me in conversations and totally dismiss what I had to say.
But when it came down to it, this was because no-one respected me.
And that all changed when I learned this life-changing secret that caused people to start taking me seriously.
And that's what I'll share with you in this video.
So, if you're ready to gain proper respect and authority in front of your family, friends and also people you don't know, then check out this video.
It will change everything about your life.
Do you ever feel super awkward saying NO to people, or maybe even Rude?
And as a result, you end up saying YES to a lot of things, you eventually regret?
If this sounds like you, then take a look at today's video.
Where you'll discover the 3 simple steps that will allow you to say No to people without sounding Rude or feeling guilty.
Steve Jobs was famous for saying, that it's only by saying no, that you will be able to truly concentrate on what matters in our life.
So, by the end of this video you'll have become a pro at saying no — the right way, as well as understand:
So, are you ready to stop people-pleasing and take control of your life?
If yes, then watch the video, and make it happen!
Hey Insider! Let me ask you this quick question: do you ever find yourself feeling a bit like a pushover?
You want to gain respect from other people but they don't seem to respect you, and the more you try, the less it seems to work. If this is something you can resonate with, this video will solve your problem.
These three steps are what I do every single day because they have totally transformed my life.
I spent most of my years being a pushover because I grew up with social anxiety and extreme shyness, but now I’m able to speak on stages all around the world.
I’ve been invited to speak at TEDx which is just crazy when I think about how far I’ve come on my journey from shyness to confidence. It is proof of how powerful these steps have been for me.
So be sure to pay close attention to my video because this information will transform your life!
Being a pushover or people pleaser, is something we all struggle with these days—the world moves very fast and it’s easy to get influenced by the surge of people moving forward.
But if you follow the tips I’ll show you today, you will learn to avoid this situation and change the nature of your relationships with other people.
Watch my video to find out:
I hope you enjoy the video and find it very useful. Gaining respect is always about how we feel internally and how we present ourselves, and the tips I share will help you improve how you do both of those things.
Be sure to give these steps a shot, and let me know in the comments box below which point most resonated with you today.
I’ll be sure to reply back to you, and like this video if you did! See you on the next video and as always, follow your heart and take action.
Hey Insider, this is a very short video today as I’m still in Hong Kong. I want to quickly share with you something that I found quite funny and so true.
We came here to find that there seems to be an Instagram hotspot in Hong Kong. There are so many Instagrams that it’s crazy, right?
We were looking for this particular building, the one you can see behind me on the video, and we couldn't find it.
Now why do you think that was? I can tell you that it wasn’t because we can’t read a map, and we didn’t suddenly lose our eyesight or our sense of direction. I’ve already given you a clue, I’m sure you know.
It was because when we physically got to Hong Kong, we had a vision in our minds of what this building should look like, based on what we saw on Instagram!
The people who had posted pictures of it online made it look almost unreal, but in reality it looks nothing like that. It is just a normal, plain building.
The great message I took away from that is that you should never compare you life to somebody else’s online content. They are only showing a glimpse of their life, not the whole thing, so of course they look unreal and perfect.
If you believe the influencers and life coaches you follow online have perfect lives, they haven’t. If you’re trying to be like them and optimise your life to be just like theirs, you are aspiring to live in a mythical land.
Remember nobody’s perfect! So stop comparing your life to somebody else’s online, controlled content, which has been carefully edited to show highlights.
The only thing you should ever do is wake up each morning and focus on you. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself and the best you can be. Because that's the only thing that truly matters for each of us.
Hope you enjoy my video today, my friend. Have a great rest of the day and as always, follow your heart and take action! Go live the life you were truly born to live.
Be honest, Insider, how many times in your life have you said yes to someone when you actually want to say no? You don’t want to hurt or annoy them so you say yes but you mean the opposite.
Well, let me admit…for me it is too many times. People pleasing can cost us a fortune—you don't need me to tell you that because you already know it. And yet we continue to do it!
It’s understandable that you want to please people, that is only natural, but there comes a point when it is harming your life and income and can even harm the people you are trying to please. In fact it often harms them, which is the last thing we want.
Do you feel like me as regards people pleasing? We want to help people and not upset them, so we say yes when we mean no, and it costs them as well as us because we end up letting them down.
There are so many people with this same problem, but don’t worry, what I’m going to share with you today will help you cut down and finally stop doing this over and over again.
In the video, I’m going to show you the three steps that I followed to finally get rid of this sabotaging behavioural pattern. because it cost me so much in my life that I knew I had to do something about it.
My wish is firstly that you pay close attention, but most importantly also take action on this: because your future self will thank you for it.
In the video today you will learn how important it is to:
I hope you find today's video helpful, Insider. If you do, be sure to click the like button and comment below. Let's commit to this and affirm it into our subconscious mind.
And as always, follow your heart, my friend. Take action and go live the life you were born to live.
Today I'm going to give you some much needed tough love, and tough advice. Because I find so many people on this planet who have these big dreams and these big ambitions to make their biggest goals a reality—and yet they never make it happen.
The reason why you've failed in accomplishing your goals in the past—and why you may be struggling to get to that next level in your life—is all down to this one thing, which I'm about to share with you today.
When you adopt this advice completely, and begin to play full out in your life, you'll begin to notice that you finally start to make your biggest dreams into reality.
Have you ever had a dream, then decided it’s wrong and you should change it? Maybe you think it’s too hard, or even impossible so you give up on it. That’s so disappointing isn’t it?
What if I told you that you don’t need to do that—there is another way to follow your dream which doesn’t involve changing it. You can stick with your best dream—the one which makes you happy and excited, instead of letting it go.
You’ll be happy to learn that there is just one secret to doing this. If you decide to do this one thing, it will make a huge difference, and you will move forward into your dream life.
Watch my video today to learn:
I really appreciate every single one of you who watch this randomly scheduled livestream I did today.
Promise me one thing, Insider. Take the information I give you in the video today and use it. This will change your life.
Commit one hundred percent and stop lying to yourself, because you only have you to rely on in this world—if you can’t believe yourself, who are you going to believe?
As always, follow your heart, my friend, and take action. Go live the life you were truly born to live.
Just imagine this scene for a moment, Insider. I was once speaking in front of fifty people at a private networking event.
Out of the blue, a woman got up with a really angry face and shouted really negative statements at me! I just stood there frozen until she walked out of the room and slammed the door shut!
The whole audience looked at me as if to say: “what the hell just happened?” And I was still standing there shocked and red in the face.
I went home that night and felt so depressed. I told myself that I had to learn how to win the audience over, because that's where I struggled the most.
Especially with my introverted background—I never really understood how to create a likeable speaker character.
It wasn't until I learned about the five steps I'm going to share with you today, that I began to get the audience on my side from the first moment. And most importantly, hook their attention.
Because the second you do this, you'll notice the audience becomes so much more receptive towards your message.
So be sure to pay close attention to every single one of these steps, as they are designed to work in unison. You can’t just do one, you have to use them together.
Watch my video today to learn:
If you learn and carry out these five steps I share with you in my video, you will win over every group you speak to.
I've spoken on stages all around the world, as you may know, and it's very that important you master these skills in order to hook your audience’s attention, and get your message across.
So I hope you found today's video helpful, Insider. If you have, let me know how you get on once you've taken action.
If you’ve liked this video, click the like button and if you want to know more about public speaking as well, let me know in the comments box below and I’ll get back to you.
As always, follow your heart my friend and take action. Get to live the life you truly want to live.
Today I’m going to talk about what confidence is and what it isn’t. I’m also going to share with you my blooper reel of how often I screw up when making these videos. But more on that later…
When I first wondered how I could be more confident, I took on the advice that people are sharing online as regards what they think confidence is.
As a result I became an arrogant idiot, trying to mask my insecurities and like a robot trying to always come across as perfect. I struggled to find a girlfriend because of that and I struggled to find friends.
I'm sure you see these people who come across like that. It makes me so worked up because it's one big lie in terms of what people are sharing!
Being truly confident is nothing like they are telling you to act, which is hiding your real self and trying to appear perfect instead.
I will share with you in my video today what the REAL secret to confidence is—it actually embraces your imperfections and the mess you feel like you are inside!
And I’ll show you why it’s great to be adaptable but not too adaptable.
I’ve shared so many personal stories with you, Insider—so many different areas of my life where I screwed up when I was younger. Such as when I was failing in school, when I ended up working as a toilet cleaner and so on…
All these vulnerable things I shared with you are probably why you connected with me, aren’t they?
If you want more connections and influence with people, it is vital that you know the true secret to confidence which I’ll share in the video today.
I'm also going to show you this a blooper reel which I published onto this channel some time ago, I just found it again. It is probably embarrassing but I am sharing this with you because behind the scenes I screw up so much.
Everyone screws up so I’m sure you can relate to it.
This is like a small segment of how many screw-ups really happen when I'm filming these videos.
I hope you found value in the video today, my friend. Like and share it if you think it will help someone you know.
Go out there and truly own who you are, Insider. You’re born to serve the world so let's change the world together. Enjoy the blooper reel!
Today, Insider, I want to answer a question which constantly pops up everywhere.
I've been asked this question by so many of you over on Instagram, Facebook, email—you name it, I see the question on it.
Especially when I'm speaking on stages all around the world! I get a lot of people putting their hands up and asking, ‘what's the best life advice you've ever received?’
The best life advice I've got from all of the successful people I've been lucky enough to hang around with is definitely this one thing which I’m going to share with you in my video today.
But first a bit of background to what was happening in my life when I received this one great piece of advice.
About four to five years ago, I was working a nine-to-five job. During that period I had a lot of side businesses and so forth but it was getting that point where I wanted to really start sharing my message online.
But as I was an introvert with social anxiety, I wondered how would I find the confidence to do that? My biggest fear was going on camera to talk about my opinions.
I asked my boss at the time, and he gave me the invaluable advice that I still use today and never forgot.
When I asked my boss this important question, first he said: “how would you describe me Tim?”
I said, “you're quite crazy, I've never actually met somebody like you. Because just the other day you came into the office and said that you randomly thought of an idea while in the shower. And instead of thinking about it, you'd already bought me the flight tickets and said I'll be flying over to Philippines to spend time with farmers and we'll be launching this big chocolate project soon.”
When I told him what I thought of him, I was amazed by what his reply to me was, and I’ve never forgotten it.
Watch my video today, Insider, to see how my crazy boss gave me the best life advice I’ve ever been given. Here is a hint—it’s to do with my favourite phrase—taking action!
As you go off and start your day today, use my message to get in the game. Don’t hold back any longer, waiting on the side-lines, because time is precious and we mustn’t waste it.
As always, my friend, follow your heart and take action and go live the life you were truly born to live! I will speak to you very soon, Insider!
Do you wonder why you’re having so much trouble closing your sales?
You are trying hard and doing all the things you know you should do, but you’re just not getting the number of sales you want, and think you should be getting.
Don’t beat yourself up—there is a secret that maybe you don’t know, which I am going to show you today so you can close more sales than you do now.
If you listen and take to heart this advice I’m going to give you, you can make changes and move forward confidently into selling more of what you are offering.
In my video, you will find out:
Tune in to find out what I say about the above points and how you can use the tips in your life to close more sales.
They all really tie up nicely into one secret, as I mentioned, so it’s really not as complicated as it looks!
I hope you found my video helpful—if you have, be sure to click the like button and comment below.
How did you use the information I gave you today? Did you see results immediately or did you start more slowly? Let me know and I’ll be sure to get back to you.
Share this video with a friend or loved one who you know would benefit, because I truly believe life is about paying it forwards.
As always, follow your heart, my friend, and take action and let's go transform people's lives together.