Are people not taking you seriously?
Maybe they're bullying you or putting you down?
If it's any of these things, it's all a result of this one simple fact, which I'll reveal to you today.
You'll discover the simple and single hard truth that is preventing people from taking you seriously.
And, believe me, it may hurt to admit it.
It may even be difficult for you to realize it.
But that's why so many people struggle to achieve respect, even around their own friends and family.
Take it from me, I went through a low period of my life where people would always over-talk me in conversations and totally dismiss what I had to say.
But when it came down to it, this was because no-one respected me.
And that all changed when I learned this life-changing secret that caused people to start taking me seriously.
And that's what I'll share with you in this video.
So, if you're ready to gain proper respect and authority in front of your family, friends and also people you don't know, then check out this video.
It will change everything about your life.
Do you ever feel super awkward saying NO to people, or maybe even Rude?
And as a result, you end up saying YES to a lot of things, you eventually regret?
If this sounds like you, then take a look at today's video.
Where you'll discover the 3 simple steps that will allow you to say No to people without sounding Rude or feeling guilty.
Steve Jobs was famous for saying, that it's only by saying no, that you will be able to truly concentrate on what matters in our life.
So, by the end of this video you'll have become a pro at saying no — the right way, as well as understand:
So, are you ready to stop people-pleasing and take control of your life?
If yes, then watch the video, and make it happen!
Hey Insider! Let me ask you this quick question: do you ever find yourself feeling a bit like a pushover?
You want to gain respect from other people but they don't seem to respect you, and the more you try, the less it seems to work. If this is something you can resonate with, this video will solve your problem.
These three steps are what I do every single day because they have totally transformed my life.
I spent most of my years being a pushover because I grew up with social anxiety and extreme shyness, but now I’m able to speak on stages all around the world.
I’ve been invited to speak at TEDx which is just crazy when I think about how far I’ve come on my journey from shyness to confidence. It is proof of how powerful these steps have been for me.
So be sure to pay close attention to my video because this information will transform your life!
Being a pushover or people pleaser, is something we all struggle with these days—the world moves very fast and it’s easy to get influenced by the surge of people moving forward.
But if you follow the tips I’ll show you today, you will learn to avoid this situation and change the nature of your relationships with other people.
Watch my video to find out:
I hope you enjoy the video and find it very useful. Gaining respect is always about how we feel internally and how we present ourselves, and the tips I share will help you improve how you do both of those things.
Be sure to give these steps a shot, and let me know in the comments box below which point most resonated with you today.
I’ll be sure to reply back to you, and like this video if you did! See you on the next video and as always, follow your heart and take action.
Just imagine this scene for a moment, Insider. I was once speaking in front of fifty people at a private networking event.
Out of the blue, a woman got up with a really angry face and shouted really negative statements at me! I just stood there frozen until she walked out of the room and slammed the door shut!
The whole audience looked at me as if to say: “what the hell just happened?” And I was still standing there shocked and red in the face.
I went home that night and felt so depressed. I told myself that I had to learn how to win the audience over, because that's where I struggled the most.
Especially with my introverted background—I never really understood how to create a likeable speaker character.
It wasn't until I learned about the five steps I'm going to share with you today, that I began to get the audience on my side from the first moment. And most importantly, hook their attention.
Because the second you do this, you'll notice the audience becomes so much more receptive towards your message.
So be sure to pay close attention to every single one of these steps, as they are designed to work in unison. You can’t just do one, you have to use them together.
Watch my video today to learn:
If you learn and carry out these five steps I share with you in my video, you will win over every group you speak to.
I've spoken on stages all around the world, as you may know, and it's very that important you master these skills in order to hook your audience’s attention, and get your message across.
So I hope you found today's video helpful, Insider. If you have, let me know how you get on once you've taken action.
If you’ve liked this video, click the like button and if you want to know more about public speaking as well, let me know in the comments box below and I’ll get back to you.
As always, follow your heart my friend and take action. Get to live the life you truly want to live.
Today I’m going to talk about what confidence is and what it isn’t. I’m also going to share with you my blooper reel of how often I screw up when making these videos. But more on that later…
When I first wondered how I could be more confident, I took on the advice that people are sharing online as regards what they think confidence is.
As a result I became an arrogant idiot, trying to mask my insecurities and like a robot trying to always come across as perfect. I struggled to find a girlfriend because of that and I struggled to find friends.
I'm sure you see these people who come across like that. It makes me so worked up because it's one big lie in terms of what people are sharing!
Being truly confident is nothing like they are telling you to act, which is hiding your real self and trying to appear perfect instead.
I will share with you in my video today what the REAL secret to confidence is—it actually embraces your imperfections and the mess you feel like you are inside!
And I’ll show you why it’s great to be adaptable but not too adaptable.
I’ve shared so many personal stories with you, Insider—so many different areas of my life where I screwed up when I was younger. Such as when I was failing in school, when I ended up working as a toilet cleaner and so on…
All these vulnerable things I shared with you are probably why you connected with me, aren’t they?
If you want more connections and influence with people, it is vital that you know the true secret to confidence which I’ll share in the video today.
I'm also going to show you this a blooper reel which I published onto this channel some time ago, I just found it again. It is probably embarrassing but I am sharing this with you because behind the scenes I screw up so much.
Everyone screws up so I’m sure you can relate to it.
This is like a small segment of how many screw-ups really happen when I'm filming these videos.
I hope you found value in the video today, my friend. Like and share it if you think it will help someone you know.
Go out there and truly own who you are, Insider. You’re born to serve the world so let's change the world together. Enjoy the blooper reel!
Did you know that it is six to seven times more expensive to get a new customer than it is to keep your current ones?
That's why as a business owner it is so important that you learn how to create a customer fan base which raves about what you do for them.
You want fans who talk about your products or services for free and you want them to be so satisfied that they consistently buy more and more of them.
People have been asking me how have we been able to do it here at Success Insider—whenever I'm speaking on stages, they ask, ‘Tim, how have you got clients who have been with you from day one? Have you got a raving consumer fanbase? Because I often see them talk about your products and programs for free online on Facebook.’
Well, Insider, it's not some form of luck or trickery or manipulation—far from it!
I’m sure you know that the success of your business depends on how you treat your customers—that is obvious—but what is the secret of treating them exactly right so they come back again and again?
How about the product or service you actually deliver to your customers? Is it better to give them exactly what they want? Or to keep them wanting more? Or to give them more than they asked for?
Why did you choose the business you chose? Was it just something you thought looked good, or was it a burning passion of yours?
Do you think your customers feel like independent consumers or do they feel like part of a community or group?
How much do you share with the people who buy your products or services? Do they know the real you. or do they see a shiny logo and website with loads of information to read?
For the answers to these questions, watch my video today where I will share with you the five steps I have developed, so you can make sure your customers keep coming back time after time.
Remember this requires you to think differently. It's about coming from the right place and provided you do, your business will grow. But most importantly your customers’ lives will be transformed! So pay close attention to what I’m about to share with you in this video, my friend!
I hope you liked this video, and let me know in the comments box below—what are you going to take action on? I'll be sure to get back to you.
If you like this video, share it with an aspiring or current entrepreneur who you know will benefit from this message.
This life is all about paying it forwards, and as always, follow your heart my friend. Take action and let's go transform the world together.
I remember my speaking mentor once pulled me to one side to tell me something, and what he said was:
“Tim, I want you to realize that right now, you're just sharing so much logic and so much knowledge but you're not striking people’s emotions. Remember, people don't remember what you say but they do remember how you made them feel. That's why you’ve got to tell more great stories.”
The problem was at the time, I was terrible at telling stories—especially in English. As you know, it's not my first language.
Insider, do you ever ask yourself these questions about sharing a story with your audience?
What should you do to grab their attention and make sure they stay with you from the beginning to the end of your story?
How many details should you put into your story? Is it a question of the more the better? Or maybe you don’t need to share as many as you think?
Once you’ve got the audience into your story to begin with, how do you keep them captivated as it continues?
What do you want your audience to learn from your story? Do you want to give them a lot of lessons to take away and practice? Or just a couple of important ones?
Which method should you use to share your story? Maybe you could write a blog on your website? Or make a video? Or send out a newsletter that your subscribers can read offline?
I was awful at telling stories, and it wasn't until I discovered the five steps I'm going to share with you today, that I finally began to captivate the attention of my audience. It made such a big difference in regards to communication and influence—especially the final point. That is something I still do to this day!
All the answers you seek will be in my video today. So be sure to pay close attention, because this will transform your life and your business!
Let me know in the comments box below, Insider, which is your biggest takeaway from today's session. What are you going to take action on? What are you going to practice? Let me know and I'll get back to you.
If you like this video, also share it with a friend or loved one that you know would benefit from this. Especially business owners or aspiring entrepreneurs.
We’ve got to master this stuff—it’s so important in marketing. As always, follow your heart, my friend, and take action!
How to stop feeling shy when speaking to others…
That's something that I wish I knew the answer to when I was younger.
Speaking is something that people can be naturally good at, or – if you're someone like me – something that you have to actively practice.
Growing up I was one of the shyest kids you would ever meet… and it's strange to think that now I can hop on stage and deliver speeches to 1000's of people now. But of course, it didn't happen overnight.
And that's why in today's video I wanted to share a couple of tips to help you overcome any nervousness you may have when talking to people.
So once you’ve watched the video, share in the comments below which part resonated the most with you. And of course, if you have any tips you swear by to help ease yourself into talking with others confidence, let us know in the comments!
As always, follow your heart & take massive action! Go live the life you were born to live.
From your Friend & Coach,
Have you ever wondered how some people manage to instantly catch people's attention to listen to, and how it's like an uphill battle for others?
Well, in today’s video I’ve got something very special to share with you. And this is something that pretty much NO ONE ELSE will tell you in the speaking industry. Why? Because they're using this skill on you to influence you.
Trust me, this isn’t something you’ll find in books or training courses either.
Today is all about “How To Speak So That People Want To Listen.”
So the next time you would like to share an idea with others, this is how to need to speak in order to grab their attention for them to listen.
So once you’ve watched the video, share in the comments below your thoughts of this!
As always, follow your heart & take massive action! Go live the life you were born to live.
From your Friend & Coach,