Do you ever feel super awkward saying NO to people, or maybe even Rude?
And as a result, you end up saying YES to a lot of things, you eventually regret?
If this sounds like you, then take a look at today's video.
Where you'll discover the 3 simple steps that will allow you to say No to people without sounding Rude or feeling guilty.
Steve Jobs was famous for saying, that it's only by saying no, that you will be able to truly concentrate on what matters in our life.
So, by the end of this video you'll have become a pro at saying no — the right way, as well as understand:
So, are you ready to stop people-pleasing and take control of your life?
If yes, then watch the video, and make it happen!
Just imagine this scene for a moment, Insider. I was once speaking in front of fifty people at a private networking event.
Out of the blue, a woman got up with a really angry face and shouted really negative statements at me! I just stood there frozen until she walked out of the room and slammed the door shut!
The whole audience looked at me as if to say: “what the hell just happened?” And I was still standing there shocked and red in the face.
I went home that night and felt so depressed. I told myself that I had to learn how to win the audience over, because that's where I struggled the most.
Especially with my introverted background—I never really understood how to create a likeable speaker character.
It wasn't until I learned about the five steps I'm going to share with you today, that I began to get the audience on my side from the first moment. And most importantly, hook their attention.
Because the second you do this, you'll notice the audience becomes so much more receptive towards your message.
So be sure to pay close attention to every single one of these steps, as they are designed to work in unison. You can’t just do one, you have to use them together.
Watch my video today to learn:
If you learn and carry out these five steps I share with you in my video, you will win over every group you speak to.
I've spoken on stages all around the world, as you may know, and it's very that important you master these skills in order to hook your audience’s attention, and get your message across.
So I hope you found today's video helpful, Insider. If you have, let me know how you get on once you've taken action.
If you’ve liked this video, click the like button and if you want to know more about public speaking as well, let me know in the comments box below and I’ll get back to you.
As always, follow your heart my friend and take action. Get to live the life you truly want to live.
I remember my speaking mentor once pulled me to one side to tell me something, and what he said was:
“Tim, I want you to realize that right now, you're just sharing so much logic and so much knowledge but you're not striking people’s emotions. Remember, people don't remember what you say but they do remember how you made them feel. That's why you’ve got to tell more great stories.”
The problem was at the time, I was terrible at telling stories—especially in English. As you know, it's not my first language.
Insider, do you ever ask yourself these questions about sharing a story with your audience?
What should you do to grab their attention and make sure they stay with you from the beginning to the end of your story?
How many details should you put into your story? Is it a question of the more the better? Or maybe you don’t need to share as many as you think?
Once you’ve got the audience into your story to begin with, how do you keep them captivated as it continues?
What do you want your audience to learn from your story? Do you want to give them a lot of lessons to take away and practice? Or just a couple of important ones?
Which method should you use to share your story? Maybe you could write a blog on your website? Or make a video? Or send out a newsletter that your subscribers can read offline?
I was awful at telling stories, and it wasn't until I discovered the five steps I'm going to share with you today, that I finally began to captivate the attention of my audience. It made such a big difference in regards to communication and influence—especially the final point. That is something I still do to this day!
All the answers you seek will be in my video today. So be sure to pay close attention, because this will transform your life and your business!
Let me know in the comments box below, Insider, which is your biggest takeaway from today's session. What are you going to take action on? What are you going to practice? Let me know and I'll get back to you.
If you like this video, also share it with a friend or loved one that you know would benefit from this. Especially business owners or aspiring entrepreneurs.
We’ve got to master this stuff—it’s so important in marketing. As always, follow your heart, my friend, and take action!
How to stop feeling shy when speaking to others…
That's something that I wish I knew the answer to when I was younger.
Speaking is something that people can be naturally good at, or – if you're someone like me – something that you have to actively practice.
Growing up I was one of the shyest kids you would ever meet… and it's strange to think that now I can hop on stage and deliver speeches to 1000's of people now. But of course, it didn't happen overnight.
And that's why in today's video I wanted to share a couple of tips to help you overcome any nervousness you may have when talking to people.
So once you’ve watched the video, share in the comments below which part resonated the most with you. And of course, if you have any tips you swear by to help ease yourself into talking with others confidence, let us know in the comments!
As always, follow your heart & take massive action! Go live the life you were born to live.
From your Friend & Coach,
Tim Han
Hey Insider!
Have you ever wondered how some people manage to instantly catch people's attention to listen to, and how it's like an uphill battle for others?
Well, in today’s video I’ve got something very special to share with you. And this is something that pretty much NO ONE ELSE will tell you in the speaking industry. Why? Because they're using this skill on you to influence you.
Trust me, this isn’t something you’ll find in books or training courses either.
Today is all about “How To Speak So That People Want To Listen.”
So the next time you would like to share an idea with others, this is how to need to speak in order to grab their attention for them to listen.
So once you’ve watched the video, share in the comments below your thoughts of this!
As always, follow your heart & take massive action! Go live the life you were born to live.
From your Friend & Coach,
Tim Han
Words.
Can the right combination be enough to persuade people? Yes. They. Can.
And I'll show you how in today's video – with some snippets of LIVE examples that I've used before – with the 7 Persuasive Words to Control Others Minds!
If “mind control” hits a sour note in any shape or form– I get it. Anything in relation to persuasion can be used for manipulation and negative things.
So here's how you can make it a positive thing: be honest with your intentions.
Are you watching this video today because you want to help others? If it is, then that's all that matters because of your intention behind methods of persuasion.
Cameras.
They used to be the source of my biggest fear– speaking in front of them.
If you're in the same boat where I used to be, you'll find this video handy. Why? Because I'm going to be sharing my go-to hacks for How to Feel More Confident on Camera!
So once you’ve watched the video, share in the comments below which strategy resonated the most with you and why. And of course, if you have your own method of becoming confident on camera – let us know in the comments below!
As always, follow your heart & take massive action! Go live the life you were born to live.
From your Friend & Coach,
Tim Han
Hey Insider!
So today is a pretty special occasion because I'm sharing with you the behind the scenes of my latest trip to London where I was invited to speak at the Parliament!
It's crazy how just one year ago – I did not know anything about public speaking. But I still put myself out there regardless and the speaking opportunities that have been coming my way have been incredible.
So that just goes to show, that when you open your mind and truly commit yourself to MASTERY – the opportunities will come.
Comment below what is your biggest takeaway after watching this video!
As always, follow your heart & take action – and go live the life you were born to live.
Your Friend & Coach,
Tim Han
Hey Insider!
In today's video, I'm taking you behind the scenes to show you what it's really like in a Day in the Life of an Entrepreneur.
What you need to remember is that while instagram tends to show only the highlight reel, don't forget the many many parts of the blooper reel!
Without further ado – let's dive in!
Once you've watched this vlog, share in the comments below what a day in your ideal life looks like!
Your Friend & Coach,
Tim Han