Do you find whenever you're surrounded by negative people, it's really easy for you to start being negative as well?

It's contagious isn't it? Especially when one person complains, it makes you want to complain and it continues like that.

Here in London today it's said to be one of the hottest ever days, so you can guess what the conversation is like. Everyone's saying, “oh it's too hot.”

And then when it's cloudy and grey, like normal weather here in England, everyone's saying, “oh it's too cold, where's the sun?”

We're living in a crazy society, and that's why I want to share with you some tips to help you stop absorbing other people's negative energy.

You're going to find this extremely useful, if right now you're surrounded by toxic people. So be sure to pay close attention because it comes down to 3 fundamental steps.

As I said regarding the weather, the overabundance of negative energy is a big problem these days, but if you follow my advice in this video, you’ll be able to handle it as well as possible.

Watch today to learn:

• How tanning is a great example of how you can stop absorbing negative energy
• Why and how you should brainwash yourself
• What people find more powerful than what you tell them
• Why you mustn’t tell babies to become instant teenagers (sounds funny, right? But there is a reason)
• What you were chosen to do when surrounded by negative people
• Where is your most valuable role—in private or in public?
• What people may turn around and ask you one day

As always, follow your heart and take action, my friend!

Hey Insider! Let me ask you this deep question: “when all is said and done, would you have said more than you've actually done?”

For the vast majority of people the answer is ‘yes’. Because we live in a crazy distracted society today, where people think it’s okay to go back on their commitments and the promises that they're making to other people, and themselves.

They're literally scamming themselves out of their own potential! Don't be one of those people.

Today I’m going to share with you: what does it really take for you to finish strong? 

How do you start like the world-class achiever that you are? How do you stay committed to your promises? How do you stop scamming yourself of your own potential?

It comes down to these 3 tips in today’s video. Make sure to act on them step by step. Are you ready?

If you study this information and internalise it, you will stand out from the crowd these days, because most people make empty promises and agreements they don’t mean to keep.

But of course don’t do this just for other people, do it for yourself to build your own self esteem and authenticity.

Watch today to learn:

• How the story of Superman can teach you what to avoid in life
• Why the contents of your fridge show how determined you are
• The great advice an Arnold Schwarzenegger lookalike gave me
• Why extreme forfeits help you move towards your goal
•  Which motivates us more—avoiding pain or seeking pleasure? You might be surprised!
• How to guarantee that you follow through on 95% of what you intend to

I hope you enjoy this video, let me know which advice resonated with you the most and what you intend to take action on first!

Let's do this together, my friend. We're not here to just earn some money, pay some bills and die, we're here to change the world!

So just wake yourself up for a moment. If you fall off the track, it's fine—just pick yourself back up and continue along.

We're all here for you but we need you to stay committed, so if you're committed, comment right now in the comments box below.

Keep it up and keep doing what it takes! You're born to win so keep playing to win every single day.

As always follow your heart and take action!

There are 3 important words, Insider, and if you were to take action on them, they would totally change your life!

The reason you might not have achieved the results you desire in your life right now is because you've not yet been fully living by the principles of these 3 words.

Once you know them, it will be like a lightbulb going off in your head—you can live by them and see amazing changes in your life.

As you know, my friend, I’m all about helping you live your best life and achieve your full potential. So many people wonder why they aren’t getting what they want in life, and there are so many ways to move towards it.

My video today shows you another technique to get to where you want to be in life—words are so powerful and important, they can change our lives massively.

Pay close attention to the information I share with you today, and learn the answers to these questions:

• Why your mind doesn’t believe a word you say—and how to teach it to trust you
• What truth you’ve got to wake up to—it will ensure you live up to your highest potential
• Why human beings are like bicycles—and how to make sure you enter the best race of your life
• How just taking a step of one millimetre can make a huge difference to your life—have you ever seen the effect of a small ripple in water?
• How making a micro decision can lead you to your best future—even the tiniest choice has enormous power
• What people regret the most when they reach the end of their lives—and how to make sure you avoid this

I hope the tips I share today help you, Insider and you enjoy the video. If you do, click the like button, and share it with people you know will like it too.

If you use this information wisely, you're going to look back at yourself at the end of this year and say, ‘thank goodness I stayed committed to my promise, and thank goodness I showed up. Because not only have I transformed myself, I’ve transformed my loved ones, and people around the world as well.’

This is what I want for you—to go out there and live an extraordinary life, you deserve the very best.

Hey Insider! Let me ask you this quick question: do you ever find yourself feeling a bit like a pushover?

You want to gain respect from other people but they don't seem to respect you, and the more you try, the less it seems to work. If this is something you can resonate with, this video will solve your problem.

These three steps are what I do every single day because they have totally transformed my life.

I spent most of my years being a pushover because I grew up with social anxiety and extreme shyness, but now I’m able to speak on stages all around the world.

I’ve been invited to speak at TEDx which is just crazy when I think about how far I’ve come on my journey from shyness to confidence. It is proof of how powerful these steps have been for me.

So be sure to pay close attention to my video because this information will transform your life!

Being a pushover or people pleaser, is something we all struggle with these days—the world moves very fast and it’s easy to get influenced by the surge of people moving forward.

But if you follow the tips I’ll show you today, you will learn to avoid this situation and change the nature of your relationships with other people.

Watch my video to find out:

• How if you observe the ways successful people communicate, it will help you get rid of harmful habits, and establish useful ones
• Why Elon Musk’s vision of colonizing Mars can help us change ourselves and the world with our own great achievements
• What you need to visualise every single day to ensure everything you do is worthy of respect
• The sort of people you need to hang around with and learn from, so you can move yours’ and others’ lives forward
• Learn the difference between egocentric and ethnocentric goals—knowing this will help you change people’s lives for the better

I hope you enjoy the video and find it very useful. Gaining respect is always about how we feel internally and how we present ourselves, and the tips I share will help you improve how you do both of those things.

Be sure to give these steps a shot, and let me know in the comments box below which point most resonated with you today.

I’ll be sure to reply back to you, and like this video if you did! See you on the next video and as always, follow your heart and take action. 

Hey Insider, I hope you're doing well. I’ve been quite silent on YouTube recently, and it’s because I’ve been preparing a webinar that will be happening very soon.

If you haven't heard about it I’ll let you know at the end of this video, but today I'm going to share with you what the number one habit of billionaires is.

This is going to be a reminder for many of you but remember, it's reminders at the right time which will lead to the biggest breakthrough in your life. So it's not about what we know, it’s

about what we do.

It’s easy to get into the habit of just going through life doing what you’ve always done, even if it is bringing you success.

But we can always learn from those who have succeeded in a massive way, such as billionaires of course.

In my video today, although I’m sharing only one habit of billionaires with you, there are so many important parts to it.

Watch to discover the answers to these questions:

• Why should you observe reality as much as you can, from a vantage point?
• What is the very simple secret to success?
• If everyone is going one way should you follow them, or should you go a different way?
• What is the biggest actual risk in your life?
• As children, what did we do which can help us now as adults?
• What is the sort of person we don’t want to work for?

I hope the answers to these questions will make a lightbulb click on in your mind, and you’ll get a flash of inspiration.

Take careful note and start using them in your daily life, and you’ll see great changes immediately!

I hope you enjoy the video, like and leave a comment if so, and I look forward to reading what you think.

For those of you who would like to join us on an upcoming, free webcast called Three Secrets To Reinvent Yourself And Rapidly Create The Future You Want, be sure to click on the link.

This is going to be the largest event of the entire year, and this is what I’ve been preparing for. Hopefully I’ll see you there!

Go out there Insider, take more risks today and I look forward to seeing you on the other video.

Have an incredible rest of the day! As always, follow your heart my friend. Take action and go live the life you were truly born to live.

Hey Insider, this is a very short video today as I’m still in Hong Kong. I want to quickly share with you something that I found quite funny and so true.

We came here to find that there seems to be an Instagram hotspot in Hong Kong. There are so many Instagrams that it’s crazy, right?

We were looking for this particular building, the one you can see behind me on the video, and we couldn't find it.

Now why do you think that was? I can tell you that it wasn’t because we can’t read a map, and we didn’t suddenly lose our eyesight or our sense of direction. I’ve already given you a clue, I’m sure you know.

It was because when we physically got to Hong Kong, we had a vision in our minds of what this building should look like, based on what we saw on Instagram!

The people who had posted pictures of it online made it look almost unreal, but in reality it looks nothing like that. It is just a normal, plain building.

The great message I took away from that is that you should never compare you life to somebody else’s online content. They are only showing a glimpse of their life, not the whole thing, so of course they look unreal and perfect.

If you believe the influencers and life coaches you follow online have perfect lives, they haven’t. If you’re trying to be like them and optimise your life to be just like theirs, you are aspiring to live in a mythical land.

Remember nobody’s perfect! So stop comparing your life to somebody else’s online, controlled content, which has been carefully edited to show highlights.

The only thing you should ever do is wake up each morning and focus on you. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself and the best you can be. Because that's the only thing that truly matters for each of us.

Hope you enjoy my video today, my friend. Have a great rest of the day and as always, follow your heart and take action! Go live the life you were truly born to live.

If you're struggling to keep on powering through right now, Insider, I’ve got some good news for you.

I’ve made this video for you, just in case life is shaking you up with some bad news or obstacles that you weren't expecting.

These three tips I’m going to share will help you to keep moving forward—no matter what you’re going through. So be sure to pay close attention, my friend.

I’m sure you all know what it’s like when this happens—maybe you split up with your partner, or your car breaks down and you get a huge repair bill, or you fail your study course.

It can seem like the end of the world, but everyone gets through it and eventually we can look back at the event as something in the past we got through.

I have certainly been through some ups and downs in my life, I can tell you!

The three pieces of advice I give you today will change your mindset, and help you to find your way past whatever is currently getting you down.

Watch my video to learn:

• Why your life is like a movie and what you can learn from the big screen
• Do you really want to play it safe in life? Or do you want to have some excitement?
• Why problems are actually gifts in disguise
• What it’s best to focus on—purple or yellow? Or both?
• What level of effort you’re at now—and how to move higher
• There are many versions of you—but which one do you want to step up?

Listen for and learn these points, then work out how you will take action in your own particular situation.

When you’re feeling down and as if life is getting harder and harder, focusing on this advice will shift your mindset and get you through it.

But you've got this, I know it! You’ll get back on track very quickly if you take these tips to heart.

I hope you enjoy the video today, let me know in the comments what you think and click the like button.

I’m confident you can do it and pull yourself through this difficult phase of your life, Insider.

And if you know someone who’s going through a rough patch, share the video with them—pay it forward, because that’s what life is about.

As always, follow your heart, my friend, and take action. Go live the life you truly want to live and I hope you have a great rest of the day!

Be honest, Insider, how many times in your life have you said yes to someone when you actually want to say no? You don’t want to hurt or annoy them so you say yes but you mean the opposite.

Well, let me admit…for me it is too many times. People pleasing can cost us a fortune—you don't need me to tell you that because you already know it. And yet we continue to do it!

It’s understandable that you want to please people, that is only natural, but there comes a point when it is harming your life and income and can even harm the people you are trying to please. In fact it often harms them, which is the last thing we want.

Do you feel like me as regards people pleasing? We want to help people and not upset them, so we say yes when we mean no, and it costs them as well as us because we end up letting them down.

There are so many people with this same problem, but don’t worry, what I’m going to share with you today will help you cut down and finally stop doing this over and over again.

In the video, I’m going to show you the three steps that I followed to finally get rid of this sabotaging behavioural pattern. because it cost me so much in my life that I knew I had to do something about it.

My wish is firstly that you pay close attention, but most importantly also take action on this: because your future self will thank you for it.

In the video today you will learn how important it is to:

• Listen to your gut feeling when people ask you to do something
• Repeat this powerful mantra to tell you how to decide on your priorities
• Use Warren Buffett’s concise rule to use when you have an important decision to make…
• …and why you shouldn’t make a decision on the spur of the moment!
• Design your own life blueprint or strategy
• Combine your values and logic to make the best choice

I hope you find today's video helpful, Insider. If you do, be sure to click the like button and comment below. Let's commit to this and affirm it into our subconscious mind.

And as always, follow your heart, my friend. Take action and go live the life you were born to live.

Just imagine this scene for a moment, Insider. I was once speaking in front of fifty people at a private networking event.

Out of the blue, a woman got up with a really angry face and shouted really negative statements at me! I just stood there frozen until she walked out of the room and slammed the door shut!

The whole audience looked at me as if to say: “what the hell just happened?” And I was still standing there shocked and red in the face.

I went home that night and felt so depressed. I told myself that I had to learn how to win the audience over, because that's where I struggled the most.

Especially with my introverted background—I never really understood how to create a likeable speaker character.

It wasn't until I learned about the five steps I'm going to share with you today, that I began to get the audience on my side from the first moment. And most importantly, hook their attention.

Because the second you do this, you'll notice the audience becomes so much more receptive towards your message.

So be sure to pay close attention to every single one of these steps, as they are designed to work in unison. You can’t just do one, you have to use them together.

Watch my video today to learn:

• Why it’s important to loosen up your audience (and yourself!)
• How to test if the jokes you want to use are funny (or not)
• Why lots of clapping helps you make a good speech or presentation
• How many times you want people to raise their hands (there is a magic number)
• Why you must drop big hints about the exciting things you’re going to reveal (it has to do with hormones!)
• How telling a story or two makes a deep connection with your audience

If you learn and carry out these five steps I share with you in my video, you will win over every group you speak to.

I've spoken on stages all around the world, as you may know, and it's very that important you master these skills in order to hook your audience’s attention, and get your message across.

So I hope you found today's video helpful, Insider. If you have, let me know how you get on once you've taken action.

If you’ve liked this video, click the like button and if you want to know more about public speaking as well, let me know in the comments box below and I’ll get back to you.

As always, follow your heart my friend and take action. Get to live the life you truly want to live.