Do you ever feel super awkward saying NO to people, or maybe even Rude?

And as a result, you end up saying YES to a lot of things, you eventually regret?

If this sounds like you, then take a look at today's video.

Where you'll discover the 3 simple steps that will allow you to say No to people without sounding Rude or feeling guilty.

Steve Jobs was famous for saying, that it's only by saying no, that you will be able to truly concentrate on what matters in our life.

So, by the end of this video you'll have become a pro at saying no — the right way, as well as understand:

1. How to be decisive and firm with your decisions.
2. How to be truthful to yourself, and how that will help others in the long-term.
3. And how you can still help others, without going back on your decision.

So, are you ready to stop people-pleasing and take control of your life?

If yes, then watch the video, and make it happen!

Hey Insider! Let me ask you this quick question: do you ever find yourself feeling a bit like a pushover?

You want to gain respect from other people but they don't seem to respect you, and the more you try, the less it seems to work. If this is something you can resonate with, this video will solve your problem.

These three steps are what I do every single day because they have totally transformed my life.

I spent most of my years being a pushover because I grew up with social anxiety and extreme shyness, but now I’m able to speak on stages all around the world.

I’ve been invited to speak at TEDx which is just crazy when I think about how far I’ve come on my journey from shyness to confidence. It is proof of how powerful these steps have been for me.

So be sure to pay close attention to my video because this information will transform your life!

Being a pushover or people pleaser, is something we all struggle with these days—the world moves very fast and it’s easy to get influenced by the surge of people moving forward.

But if you follow the tips I’ll show you today, you will learn to avoid this situation and change the nature of your relationships with other people.

Watch my video to find out:

• How if you observe the ways successful people communicate, it will help you get rid of harmful habits, and establish useful ones
• Why Elon Musk’s vision of colonizing Mars can help us change ourselves and the world with our own great achievements
• What you need to visualise every single day to ensure everything you do is worthy of respect
• The sort of people you need to hang around with and learn from, so you can move yours’ and others’ lives forward
• Learn the difference between egocentric and ethnocentric goals—knowing this will help you change people’s lives for the better

I hope you enjoy the video and find it very useful. Gaining respect is always about how we feel internally and how we present ourselves, and the tips I share will help you improve how you do both of those things.

Be sure to give these steps a shot, and let me know in the comments box below which point most resonated with you today.

I’ll be sure to reply back to you, and like this video if you did! See you on the next video and as always, follow your heart and take action. 

Just imagine this scene for a moment, Insider. I was once speaking in front of fifty people at a private networking event.

Out of the blue, a woman got up with a really angry face and shouted really negative statements at me! I just stood there frozen until she walked out of the room and slammed the door shut!

The whole audience looked at me as if to say: “what the hell just happened?” And I was still standing there shocked and red in the face.

I went home that night and felt so depressed. I told myself that I had to learn how to win the audience over, because that's where I struggled the most.

Especially with my introverted background—I never really understood how to create a likeable speaker character.

It wasn't until I learned about the five steps I'm going to share with you today, that I began to get the audience on my side from the first moment. And most importantly, hook their attention.

Because the second you do this, you'll notice the audience becomes so much more receptive towards your message.

So be sure to pay close attention to every single one of these steps, as they are designed to work in unison. You can’t just do one, you have to use them together.

Watch my video today to learn:

• Why it’s important to loosen up your audience (and yourself!)
• How to test if the jokes you want to use are funny (or not)
• Why lots of clapping helps you make a good speech or presentation
• How many times you want people to raise their hands (there is a magic number)
• Why you must drop big hints about the exciting things you’re going to reveal (it has to do with hormones!)
• How telling a story or two makes a deep connection with your audience

If you learn and carry out these five steps I share with you in my video, you will win over every group you speak to.

I've spoken on stages all around the world, as you may know, and it's very that important you master these skills in order to hook your audience’s attention, and get your message across.

So I hope you found today's video helpful, Insider. If you have, let me know how you get on once you've taken action.

If you’ve liked this video, click the like button and if you want to know more about public speaking as well, let me know in the comments box below and I’ll get back to you.

As always, follow your heart my friend and take action. Get to live the life you truly want to live.

Today I’m going to talk about what confidence is and what it isn’t. I’m also going to share with you my blooper reel of how often I screw up when making these videos. But more on that later…

When I first wondered how I could be more confident, I took on the advice that people are sharing online as regards what they think confidence is.

As a result I became an arrogant idiot, trying to mask my insecurities and like a robot trying to always come across as perfect. I struggled to find a girlfriend because of that and I struggled to find friends.

I'm sure you see these people who come across like that. It makes me so worked up because it's one big lie in terms of what people are sharing!

Being truly confident is nothing like they are telling you to act, which is hiding your real self and trying to appear perfect instead.

I will share with you in my video today what the REAL secret to confidence is—it actually embraces your imperfections and the mess you feel like you are inside!

And I’ll show you why it’s great to be adaptable but not too adaptable.

I’ve shared so many personal stories with you, Insider—so many different areas of my life where I screwed up when I was younger. Such as when I was failing in school, when I ended up working as a toilet cleaner and so on…

All these vulnerable things I shared with you are probably why you connected with me, aren’t they?

If you want more connections and influence with people, it is vital that you know the true secret to confidence which I’ll share in the video today.

I'm also going to show you this a blooper reel which I published onto this channel some time ago, I just found it again. It is probably embarrassing but I am sharing this with you because behind the scenes I screw up so much.

Everyone screws up so I’m sure you can relate to it.

This is like a small segment of how many screw-ups really happen when I'm filming these videos.

I hope you found value in the video today, my friend. Like and share it if you think it will help someone you know.

Go out there and truly own who you are, Insider. You’re born to serve the world so let's change the world together. Enjoy the blooper reel!

Do you wonder why you’re having so much trouble closing your sales?

You are trying hard and doing all the things you know you should do, but you’re just not getting the number of sales you want, and think you should be getting.

Don’t beat yourself up—there is a secret that maybe you don’t know, which I am going to show you today so you can close more sales than you do now.

If you listen and take to heart this advice I’m going to give you, you can make changes and move forward confidently into selling more of what you are offering.

In my video, you will find out:

•         The connection between self worth and net worth and why this is so important.
•         Why my billionaire friend is still thinking like an 18 year old, and why it’s harming him. You don’t want to do the same, believe me!
•         Ways to increase the status of your potential client
•         Why Rolls Royce is giving up half a million dollars
•         The importance of painting a picture for your clients in every way you can
•         Why objection handling and promoting experiences are so vital to making sales

Tune in to find out what I say about the above points and how you can use the tips in your life to close more sales.

They all really tie up nicely into one secret, as I mentioned, so it’s really not as complicated as it looks!

I hope you found my video helpful—if you have, be sure to click the like button and comment below.

How did you use the information I gave you today? Did you see results immediately or did  you start more slowly? Let me know and I’ll be sure to get back to you.

Share this video with a friend or loved one who you know would benefit, because I truly believe life is about paying it forwards.

As always, follow your heart, my friend, and take action and let's go transform people's lives together.

The biggest mistake we introverts make is to assume that it's only the gifted few who are able to connect deeply with people.

We assume we can’t hit it off with people we don’t know, because we are perhaps shy and nervous, we don’t know what to say, we think we’re boring or we feel self-conscious.

I want you to realize you can absolutely connect deeply with others, no matter how shy you are, because I've been there. Despite all the speaking and meeting people that I do, I am an introvert.

I realized over the years that you can use psychology and mind hacks to your advantage. There are these five steps which if you adopt today, you'll notice a huge difference in your ability to connect with anyone you want to.

It seems daunting at first but believe me, if you take that first step and keep going, you will soon be much more confident when you meet people you don’t know. You will be able to connect with anyone and enjoy doing it as well!

So make sure to pay close attention to what I’m going to tell you. If you’ve ever wondered about these points, I will give you the information you need to do well in social situations.

• Firstly, how do you get people to trust you? There is no trickery, there is just a simple technique I will show you to achieve this.
• Then there is body language—what is a good way to create rapport with people you don’t know?
• Why does pretending someone is a friendly alien help you connect with them?
• How can you use emotions to make someone feel more relaxed in your company?
• Why is it important to think about your energy level when you meet someone new?

I hope these five steps I shared with you today, Insider, have started you thinking about what you can do to take action on them. Which one will you start with to improve your skills of connecting with people?

Be sure to let me know in the comments box below what your biggest takeaway from today's session was. What you are going to take action on and how is it going?

If you like this video, share it with just one person that you know would benefit from it. Life is about paying it forwards and you could change their life!

Finally, I just want to say have an incredible rest of the day, my friend, and as always follow your heart and take action!

I remember my speaking mentor once pulled me to one side to tell me something, and what he said was:

“Tim, I want you to realize that right now, you're just sharing so much logic and so much knowledge but you're not striking people’s emotions. Remember, people don't remember what you say but they do remember how you made them feel. That's why you’ve got to tell more great stories.”

The problem was at the time, I was terrible at telling stories—especially in English. As you know, it's not my first language.

Insider, do you ever ask yourself these questions about sharing a story with your audience?

What should you do to grab their attention and make sure they stay with you from the beginning to the end of your story?

How many details should you put into your story? Is it a question of the more the better? Or maybe you don’t need to share as many as you think?

Once you’ve got the audience into your story to begin with, how do you keep them captivated as it continues?

What do you want your audience to learn from your story? Do you want to give them a lot of lessons to take away and practice? Or just a couple of important ones?

Which method should you use to share your story? Maybe you could write a blog on your website? Or make a video? Or send out a newsletter that your subscribers can read offline?

I was awful at telling stories, and it wasn't until I discovered the five steps I'm going to share with you today, that I finally began to captivate the attention of my audience. It made such a big difference in regards to communication and influence—especially the final point. That is something I still do to this day!

All the answers you seek will be in my video today. So be sure to pay close attention, because this will transform your life and your business!

Let me know in the comments box below, Insider, which is your biggest takeaway from today's session. What are you going to take action on? What are you going to practice? Let me know and I'll get back to you.

If you like this video, also share it with a friend or loved one that you know would benefit from this. Especially business owners or aspiring entrepreneurs.

We’ve got to master this stuff—it’s so important in marketing. As always, follow your heart, my friend, and take action!

In today's video I'm going to share you the five deadly mistakes you're making when it comes to first impressions.

These may be killing your success right now so pay close attention, Insider!

This is an area of my life I struggle with so much. You may know my background is that I've been shy and introverted for as long as I can remember. Ever since school days because of the bullying that I experienced.

A lot of things I've learned today from traveling around the world and speaking on global stages, and other things I've learned from mentors, so I've gone through a transformation.

These five mistakes I was making, in terms of first impressions, were holding me back for many, many years. That's why I want you to pay close attention because this will be the big leverage you need to get yourself up to that next level.

Do you feel like you often make a bad first impression on people you meet? They don’t seem interested in you, they don’t listen to what you say, maybe they don’t meet your eyes or smile at you?

These experiences are mainly connected to you, Insider. Usually people reflect what they are seeing in you, and what they do is a mirror of what you are doing.

Do you tend to get stuck in your head thinking what to say next, or thinking about what happened yesterday?

Do you take trouble with how you present yourself?

Are you trying too hard to make a good impression and maybe clinging onto anyone you interact with?

Do you think talking a lot will inspire the person in front of you?

Are you feeling unconfident about meeting new people and it shows in your body language?

But don’t despair! A few small changes can ensure you make a great first impression with everyone you meet.

When you’ve watched this video, let me know in the comments box below what's been your biggest takeaway today that you're going to now implement to ensure the bad first impression doesn't happen. Let me know and I'll be sure to get back to you.

If you like this video, insider, share it with a friend or loved one who's got to hear this message!

Happiness is only real when it's shared isn't that true? life is about pay it forward, so just think about one person right now who would benefit from this video and that way they'll benefit as well. Through ripples of contribution we’ll change the world together!

Thank you so much for tuning in and as always Insider, follow your heart my friend. Take action and let's go change the world together.

How to stop feeling shy when speaking to others…

That's something that I wish I knew the answer to when I was younger.

Speaking is something that people can be naturally good at, or – if you're someone like me – something that you have to actively practice.

Growing up I was one of the shyest kids you would ever meet… and it's strange to think that now I can hop on stage and deliver speeches to 1000's of people now. But of course, it didn't happen overnight.

And that's why in today's video I wanted to share a couple of tips to help you overcome any nervousness you may have when talking to people.

So once you’ve watched the video, share in the comments below which part resonated the most with you. And of course, if you have any tips you swear by to help ease yourself into talking with others confidence, let us know in the comments!

As always, follow your heart & take massive action! Go live the life you were born to live.

From your Friend & Coach,

Tim Han